Dating Tips – Fun Things to Do On a First Date

The first date can be the most nerve wracking.  You don’t want to be in an embarrassing or awkward situation with nothing to say and nothing to talk about or do.  That’s why it’s a good idea to have a plan and to also have an emergency back up plan if things aren’t going so smoothly.  It may save the date and even wind up the most memorable part of the night.  Here are three dating tips to do on a first date.

Dating tip #1: Use index cards.  Don’t write out questions on index cards to ask your date.  It can seem too much like an interview and you lose the natural ebb and flow of a conversation by reading off an index card.  You can rely too much on a crutch and not trust your own intuition and gut on how the date is going.  In addition, you’re probably too nervous to actually listen to the answers as you’re focused on asking the next question.  Instead, use the index cards to have fun on a first date by making it a game.  You can give your date a blank index card to write the answer to a question before they ask the question.  Their answer on the index card is what they think your answer would be.  There are many different variations of games you can play like this, and it could be a good way to break the ice and get into a more comfortable mood.  The point is not to rely on any props or activities, but to use them to loosen up and get past the point of awkwardness so that you can be yourself.

Dating tip #2: Use what’s around you.  Something that both of you can do together is to imagine what other people around you are saying or talking about based on their body language.  If there is a couple a couple of tables away, you can make it a game and come up with dialogue as if you’re the screenwriter and they are actors in your screenplay.  Bringing humor and a light-hearted attitude into your first date can break down a lot of walls and insecurities between the two of you.  It would also be beneficial to use that laughter as a starting point to talk about more intimate things, like your dreams and what’s important to you.

Dating tip #3: Talk about movies.  I’ve never met a person who didn’t watch or like movies.  Even the most hardened critic still has a few that he/she likes.  With that said, movies are always a good bet to talk about and will always open the door to remembering funny scenes or touching points.  And because movies deal with story structures that often involve a compelling moral or character transformation, there’s a lot of material to talk about, moving beyond the general statements like “that movie was great,” or “it was just ok.”

Matchmaking has a way of bringing two people together that are compatible and on the same page about their relationship goals.  Starting off on a first date with someone you know is compatible with you is a great way to feel comfortable and ease your way into a first date.  There’s no need to impress or try to be someone you’re not.  All you need to is focus on having a great first date, and hopefully these three dating tips will help you have a great time.

First time Tanning Guide

The first thing to do when tanning for the first time is to relax! Tanning is fun and relaxing and should be enjoyed. When you find the tanning salon that is right for you, make sure to tell them you’ve never been tanning before. It can be hard to decide just how many minutes to tan at first, but the tanning salon employees are seasoned pros and can help you figure it out. Make sure to tell them about your skin type: how easily you burn, recent sun exposure, and natural hair and eye colors. These things will all help you decide which bed you should use and for how long. You will fill out a bunch of paperwork (all to ensure your safety) that should also help you and the tanning salons figure out what is best for you and your skin.

When you get into your tanning room, make sure to ask how to operate the bed. Most tanning beds have radios or stereos along with plenty of fans to keep you cool. You don’t want to waste time figuring out how to work all the electronics—just ask for help! Also make sure the bed is clean, and if not, don’t be afraid to ask someone to clean it for you (or clean it yourself).

When you are all ready in your room, apply tanning lotion. Try out samples from the tanning salon before you commit to buying a big bottle. Tanning lotions are imperative to getting a good, even tan. Don’t bring lotions from home. Tanning lotions used for outdoor tanning are different from indoor tanning and can damage the beds. Most tanning salons also have stickers you can wear so you can see a decorative patch of un-tanned skin underneath, which will help you know how tan you are and when your tan fades.

One big question many people have is what to wear. Swim suit? Underwear? Birthday suit? Most people strip down and tan in the nude. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable—just remember to lock the door before you start skin tanning !

Your tanning bed will have a timer, so don’t worry that you’ll get stuck in there forever and not know when to come out. When the bed turns off, wipe yourself down (you will be sweaty!), and get dressed. Follow proper tanning etiquette and leave the room as clean as possible. Don’t forget to make an appointment on your way out. Next time, you’ll feel like a pro!